There are basically two categories of conflicts: conflicts intrapersonal and interpersonal conflicts. intrapersonal means internal to the individual, on person with itself, or rather, a different mental functions (1) between them. This conflict is one of the most frequent causes of the malaise in modern society, in addition, every problem creates intrapersonal interpersonal conflicts in a short time because when the person is not feeling well, live well, develops a tendency to project onto others the cause of its malaise. Superficially, it seems more convenient to blame others for their problems, but this, not only is not a solution to issues of conflict, but is aggravating because doing so extends the scope of suffering. The people close to those of vehicle negative emotions, in fact, are picked from the same malaise as dissatisfaction, restlessness, aggressiveness, nervousness and the like, are contagious. Conflict resolution must operate on two levels: the simplest and most immediate is out and is nell'aggiustare relationships with others. While the most difficult problems to solve are those with ourselves, which often do not know that we have, because we are created by attitudes almost always unconscious. The solution of these problems requires a serious inner work and discipline to follow, those who do not want to do this work ahead, to make a series of adjustments in your personality is, despite himself, forced to endure the forces of the unconscious and the consequences for mostly unknown, their samskaras or latent desires. We have immense strength to handle that first we need to know. You must be familiar, although theoretically, because the practice without knowledge is very risky. Prior to experience, vijnana, it jnana, knowledge, we need a theoretical framework to be able to act. You set a very dangerous relationship, marriage, society, activities, anything without having the necessary knowledge. 
Chances are that these relations will eventually prove unsuccessful. If the report is based on ego-driven, the problems remain. If they are focused on the upper level of the divine, God, every problem, should it arise, then it resolves. In terms of embodied being, on the other hand, the ego is the interface element, because there can be no ego relationship, but because the ego is strongly influenced by various constraints, paradoxically, in addition to being the object of report, also becomes the object of the conflict. Affinché la relazione funzioni senza conflittualità è necessario che i due soggetti siano teocentrici. I conflitti si destrutturano in presenza dell’amore. Un esempio molto elementare è dato dall’oscurità che si destruttura in presenza della luce; non è necessario lottare contro le ombre, basta illuminarle. Non dovete trasformarvi in novelli Don Chisciotte e lottare contro i mulini a vento, è sufficiente avere uno scopo positivo perché tutto ciò che è negativo si trasformi da solo. (1) Per approfondire lo studio relativo alle funzioni psichiche secondo la Psicologia dello Yoga si consiglia la lettura del libro Pensiero, Azione e Destino di Marco Ferrini.
Tratto da 'Affinità Karmiche e Relazioni Familiari' di Marco Ferrini .
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